Everything we do, decisions we make have its pros and cons. The most common reason why a group of individuals, may it be your family or your friends get ruined is because of this, “SPEAKING WITHOUT THINKING” and “EXPRESSING WHILE IN A STRONG EMOTIONAL STATE”. We all know that right? As a person we should be responsible and aware of the words that will come out of our mouths. There are times when we suddenly say something which hurts other people without us knowing.
In today’s modern time, being the type of person who thinks before speaking is a must. Do you agree? Every word that we say may affect the future of an individual. Why am I saying this? It is because I’m one of the victims and products of a person who almost ruined my life because of a statement that I don’t really want to hear and which makes me lose confidence.
That sharp tongue should be disciplined well, so as the brain. There are instances when we say “I’m sorry I didn’t mean it. It’s just I’m in this situation..”, but come to think of it, not all that you want to express should be said or expressed immediately without knowing the person’s feelings. We should think or contextualize what would be the effect of the sentence or our opinion to a particular person.
Learn to think a number of times before uttering a word especially a promise to a person because when you say those words, there’s a small chance or maybe there’s no turning back. No matter how you try to fix or resolve everything or even reciprocate and cover what you said, believe me that words will remain to the person’s mind and heart especially the words which makes him/her happy and thankful; suffering and in sorrow.
Keep this in mind: BE CAREFUL OF EVERYTHING YOU SAY, BECAUSE THAT SINGLE STATEMENT OR WORD CAN CHANGE EVERYTHING IN A SNAP.