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THINK before you SPEAK


Everything we do, decisions we make have its pros and cons. The most common reason why a group of individuals, may it be your family or your friends get ruined is because of this, “SPEAKING WITHOUT THINKING” and “EXPRESSING WHILE IN A STRONG EMOTIONAL STATE”. We all know that right? As a person we should be responsible and aware of the words that will come out of our mouths. There are times when we suddenly say something which hurts other people without us knowing.

In today’s modern time, being the type of person who thinks before speaking is a must. Do you agree? Every word that we say may affect the future of an individual. Why am I saying this? It is because I’m one of the victims and products of a person who almost ruined my life because of a statement that I don’t really want to hear and which makes me lose confidence.

That sharp tongue should be disciplined well, so as the brain. There are instances when we say “I’m sorry I didn’t mean it. It’s just I’m in this situation..”, but come to think of it, not all that you want to express should be said or expressed immediately without knowing the person’s feelings. We should think or contextualize what would be the effect of the sentence or our opinion to a particular person.

Learn to think a number of times before uttering a word especially a promise to a person because when you say those words, there’s a small chance or maybe there’s no turning back. No matter how you try to fix or resolve everything or  even reciprocate and cover what you said, believe me that words will remain to the person’s mind and heart especially the words which makes him/her happy and thankful; suffering and in sorrow.




I'm a college student taking up Bachelor of Secondary Education and still striving to graduate with flying colors. I love reading books especially action genres. I'm also a newbie writer starting to post stories in Wattpad. I'm from Southeast Asia. Blogging and studying is my way to escape and express my feelings and thoughts anonymously. I 'm also addicted to korean music.

2 thoughts on “THINK before you SPEAK

  1. the trouble in speaking without thinking is it is driven by emotions and more often than not, it brings misunderstanding and strife. it may sound cliche that before we speak we have to count up to ten. it is actually very helpful. i apply this technique coupled with drinking a glass of water to ease the tension. it may not totally diminish the emotional state you are in but it helps lessen the strength of the words that you will have to utter. ergo, you save possible strain in the relationship. furthermore, we cannot retract the words that were said and even if we apologize or ask sorry, the damage has been done. so we really have to be very, very careful. 🙂


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